Autumn Colours...
The Unexpected Expected
(Thursday, May. 21, 2009, 7:53 am)
Soooo -

On Tuesday I was looking through my desk drawer and saw that I had a document in here that I still hadn't "finished" with. (Mainly, I needed to get JD to sign this form stating that I was no longer residing at the residence and get my name taken off the lease).

I was highly agitated because I had previously called one of the assitant managers at the place on numerous occasions to see if she had gotten him to sign the form. She always had some excuse to why she couldn't find him and why it wasn't signed.

So when I called on Tuesday to get the status, I was informed that said chic didn't even work there anymore ::gitting teeth:: - and that now there is a completely different form that needed to be signed. ::rolls eyes::

But since I'm the one that needs this doen for my benefit, I played nice. When I left work I went to the leasing office, filled out and signed this new form and gave the new manager all my info (because I want to be contacted when all of this is done).

The hard part --- I had to call JD to let him know he needed to sign this form. Now I could have waited until the manager found him, informed him to sign this form, and got back to me. But like I said...I'm the one that needs this to be taken care of. ::again, rolls eyes::

Mind you, I haven't talked to JD at all since his don't ever call or talk to me again you crazy bitch text message. Hell how I see it, I'm following your dumb ass instructions (albeit I didn't want to talk to his drugged up ass anyway) ::shrug::

So as I'm quickly driving back across the bridge to pick up Mike, I call him (might I add after it took me almost 43 minutes to find his number before I left work...I deleted him from my life/memory way easier than even I had thought). Convo goes like this:

him: ((in a smart ass tone)) Good afternoon this is Officer {his last name}
me: sigh Whatever look...I'm making this quick. I need you to go to the leasing office and sign a form please.
him: What form?
me: It's to get my name completely removed from the lease and that property.
him: Well why do I need to do that?
me: now I'm extremely irritated, because this convo is like...90 seconds longer than it needs to be. JD I do NOT want to argue with you. I sent a form over to Flora 2 days after I moved everything out of your apartment. Evidently she didn't get you to sign the paperwork to get my name removed from that lease. I would really like to have that taken care of before I go out for maternity leave, because I don't want the hassle of having to drive my baby around to handle domestic issues in the middle of the summer. ::deep breath:: As soon as you possibly can, would you please go to the leasing office and sign this paperwork? I would greatly appreciate it.
him: ((In a very concerned emotional voice)) Oh so how are you doing? How are things with you?
me: ((a very tart reply)) I'm fine
him: So you don't want to talk? I mean we haven't spoken in a long time Ryan.
me: This is not a social call. I really do need you to sign this paperwork.
him: Oh okay. Well when do you want to meet to do it? Whenever you want, I'll meet you it doesn't matter.
me: ((almost choking in absurd laughter)) - We don't need to meet. I already went and signed the form today, like I already said. I just need your signature.
him: Oh, well don't we have to meet to sign it together?
me: NO! Listen, I need this signed and taken care of ok. I don't have that much time. Will you please sign it tomorrow? I need this done!!
him: Oh okay. I'll take care of it tomorrow. Do you need anything else? Whatever else you need I'll take care of, Ryan.
me: No.
him: Oh okay.
me: Thank you. I disconnect

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I was kinda pissed after the phone call. Because I was kind of being an ass, but I really wanted to be in control of the situation and I wasn't. I was hoping on the lines of "hey can you sign a form" yes "okay thanks, bye". Soo...yeah. And then all night long I kept replaying the phone convo in my head, and I was kind of being an ass. Which irritates me, because I don't WANT to come off as an ass. But in retrospect, I don't really care how I come off to him. As I see it, I get my name off that lease and that's our last issue together. Period.

So....yep.

That's pretty much it. No baby yet. Mike had surgery on his throat and stomach yesterday (minor). It was hilarious to have to wake him up from the anesthetics. My doc appointment was fine. They were 'slightly' concerned because baby hasn't been moving around as much....I just say we are both VERY tired now. Oh, and I got my hair braided yesterday. My lovely sister paid for it. I do heart her!!

Jeter - Monday, Sept. 28, 2009
Thoughts of death..... - Thursday, Sept. 24, 2009
One of those days - Tuesday, Sept. 22, 2009
What could have been, and should have been - Thursday, Sept. 17, 2009
Changes in Schedule - Tuesday, Sept. 15, 2009